Let’s talk about eight rules for effective communication with a narcissist. Rule number one: use their name. When speaking with a narcissist, be sure to use their name. First of all, it’s polite. It shows respect and empathy. Two things the narcissist knows little to nothing about: It also shows a level of emotional intelligence,…
1 they’re highly seductive Initially anyway. People who land on the spectrum of destructive narcissism tend to use seduction as their primary means of connecting because they’re fundamentally incapable of bonding in a real and healthy way. So instead of working to foster healthy love and intimacy, things they know nothing about, it’ll be all…
Today I will be talking about what your No contact tells the Narcissist but it also includes what Ignoring them communicates to them as well. Because Ignoring the Narcissist and going full No Contact are proven ways to be free of the Narcissist and their manipulations. Although both are very effective and the response from…
The fact of the matter is that Narcissists are very judgmental. And when it comes to the Covert Narcissist a lot of the judging happens in their minds and is only expressed to someone in the safe zone. For those who don’t know; the Covert Narcissist’s safe zone is usually their homes. That is where…
Today I want to talk about current events and role of Narcissists because life has a lot of uncertainties and this is something Narcissists hate as they prefer to have control not just over people but every day events. They also prefer to bury their heads in the sand when crisis situations arise. They are…
Narcissists create a lot of their own problems. They are their own worst enemies. And although they want to control, they keep giving away their power. The narcissist does not seem to realise that is what they are doing. And not even the victims sometimes realise the powerful position that the narcissist has placed them…
Relationships with narcissists typically begin with a whirlwind romance. You will experience a level of intimacy you have never experienced before as if you are soul mates. They will appear to be companions who worship the ground you walk on. It can be challenging to judge a narcissist’s turbulent emotions if you are in a…
When it comes to narcissism, it’s important to know that someone who is a narcissist has what’s called a narcissistic personality disorder. And I have an older article that I will link below. I’ll walk you through all the diagnostic criteria because it’s important to know that people can have narcissistic traits without having a…
Narcissists are strategic. They plan, they scheme, they think, and overthink every upcoming engagement or encounter. They would practice things they will say or how they will act to ensure that the right image of them is received. If the Narcissist can help it, nothing happens by chance. They also have certain time frames in…
Today I want to look at some of the things Narcissists do to affect your image or reputation. Because, a few weeks ago, I did an article addressing the fact that your image matters to the Narcissist and that is why they will always try to control how others view you, regardless of your relationship…