There is a lot of talk out there about what happens when you go no contact with a narcissist, or how painful it is when a narcissist punishes you with the silent treatment. But what happens when both of you stop talking to each other? What happens when they deploy the silent treatment to break…
A narcissist can study you like a textbook. They can fake your mannerisms.They can wear the exact clothes you wear, claim to love the colors you like, and learn to talk— or talk. Heck, they can even try to walk your walk. They will strive so desperately to become a perfect reflection of you. But…
Sit down for a moment. I know you’re tired of the confusion and the constant searching for answers that never seem to fit the pain you’ve been feeling. You’ve looked into their eyes and seen something that isn’t quite human, haven’t you? It’s a coldness that doesn’t match the warm words they once used. Today,…
When a narcissist thinks you’re too strong, this is the next thing they’ll do. I want you to take a deep breath and really look at where you are right now. You’ve changed, haven’t you? There is a quietness in your eyes that wasn’t there a year ago. You are no longer the person who…
When a narcissist calls you again after a long period of no contact, here are the things you should realize. Imagine sitting in the quiet peace you worked so hard to build. And then a name flashes on your screen—a name you thought you buried under layers of healing and distance. Your heart skips a…
There’s a silence that follows a storm. One so deep, so hollow, it almost hums. It’s the kind of silence that settles after chaos has clawed through your life and then vanished—leaving behind only questions. And if you’ve ever walked away from a narcissist, you’ve felt that silence. You’ve heard it echo in the corners…
Leaving a narcissist takes absolutely everything out of you. By the time you finally walk away, you may not be looking for revenge. Maybe you’re angry, but you’re not trying to destroy them the way they may try to. You’re just exhausted, and you’re just trying to breathe again—because you’ve spent months, maybe years, living…
Why does a narcissist keep blaming the new partner for your loss? Have you ever sat in the quiet of your room and wondered why the person who discarded you is now weaponizing your memory against someone else? It is one of the most confusing parts of the narcissistic cycle. The moment they start blaming…
Narcissists do not fall apart the second you leave. That is not how it works. They do not sit in a corner, holding their head in their hands, crying about everything they did to you. They do not feel a sudden wave of clarity, where they see the truth and want to make things right….
Narcissists have a criminalistic ability to weaponize anything they can think of to make a fool out of you, to get what they want. They use your emotions and feelings to make you feel a certain way—and then they use that emotional state to influence your behavior and your decision-making process. When weaponizing these things…