Your health fades.
Again, because you are so consumed and confused by them, you lose focus on how to eat healthy. Especially when they behave in a manner that hurts you or breaks your trust by being sexually promiscuous behind your back, it leaves you in a state of shock, disbelief, hurt, feeling worthless, uncertain about trusting people, wanting to reconcile, wanting to take revenge, and a host of other feelings that impact your ability to eat healthy and treat yourself with respect and the love you deserve.
You become unhappy.
Ultimately, by being in the presence of such an emotional vampire, you become like them—unhappy and unhealthy as you lose everything that you held to be important. You become disillusioned about life, and the more you try to control the situation, the more you spiral out of control. Their lives are not in control, as they project a false image to others. But you get sucked along for the ride, and in the end, you become unhealthy and unhappy.
You are at risk of health issues.
As you continue along the path of uncertainty and disillusionment, you become unhealthy and stop eating and taking care of your body. Further to this, you are at risk of sexually transmitted infections. Again, you must question the standards for your life.
Narcs are not loyal and will do anything to get a “fix” of narcissistic supply. This means they will get it from wherever they can, even if it means getting sex on the side… regularly!
So be clear on this. If you have a feeling this might be true, then it probably is. Don’t think you can change them, as this is their life, and given a narc’s sense of “grandiosity” and entitlement, they will not be sorry and will not want to change.
It is up to you to change and draw the line in the sand. Imagine for a moment if you continue with them: how many sexual partners are you really sleeping with? What is the worst that you could contract by continuing to sleep with them?
How will it impact your own life, your children’s lives, and those around you if you contract a deadly virus from this person who does not care about you?
Narcissist and S*E*X. How the Narcissist views i*n*t*imacy with their partner.
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