A point comes in every narcissistic relationship where a survivor is forced to behave in ways similar to how a narcissist behaves, and that makes them think they’re a narcissist as well. For example, going no contact may be perceived as ghosting the narcissist because they ghost you. When they ghost you, they block you…
What is the one thing that all narcissists want to have whenever they become a part of a relationship or a situation? What is that one thing they are driven by? Control. It is the desire to exert maximum control over a situation or a person. But you may wonder, why? Why do they want…
After experiencing narcissistic abuse for decades from different people in different situations, I have realized that there is a way, which I call the 10-second technique, to tell if you’re dealing with a narcissist or not. Before you say, “Oh, come on, it’s not that easy. How is it possible?” hold your horses because I’m…
It is said that a narcissist’s worst nightmare is a healed empath—a super empath—a person who practices self-love in real life, who has strong boundaries with themselves and others, a person who knows their non-negotiables, their values, and what they want in their life. A super empath is a narcissist’s kryptonite. When they encounter each…
Today, I will precisely teach you how to trigger a narcissist’s shame response to minimize their abuse and corner them. Before you comment and say, “Doesn’t that make you a narcissist as well? Why would you want to shame them? Why would you want to hurt them on purpose? Where is the difference between you…
A narcissist has an insatiable need to stay in control of every situation and continually extract emotional “supply” from those around them. This need doesn’t wane when they’re not physically present; instead, they often use texting as a tool to maintain their grip on their targets. Narcissistic texting habits can be perplexing, often leaving you…
Narcissists are big-time cheaters, but they hide it so well that it becomes almost impossible for you to know that they are doing something behind your back. They leave signs, but not so obvious that you can easily notice something is going on. Whatever the proof is, they conceal it, hide it, and twist it…
Every narcissistic relationship is recognized by the hot and cold pattern of cycles of breakup and patch-up. A narcissist will leave you one day, but the next day they will hoover you and try to regain control. They will leave you and abandon you so that you chase them. There is constant inconsistency, a predictable…
Many people associate narcissistic personality disorder with men who are frequently characterized as violent and angry. Most of the stereotypes often appear in men when they feel threatened that their supply source may go or when they feel offended. Contrary to popular belief, narcissistic women are just as toxic and plentiful as narcissistic males. Although…
Narcissists. Masters of manipulation, champions of self-importance, and relentless destroyers of peace of mind. If you’ve ever encountered one, you know the insidious sting of their tactics. They worm their way into your life, promising charm and grandeur, only to leave you questioning your reality and sanity. But how do they do it? What are…