You have supported the narcissist physically and mentally, and now the narcissist finds himself in a difficult situation, with many problems that he has never had to deal with before. Many narcissistic people struggle with depression, maybe the narcissist has not worked before and now he has to go to work he does not want to go to and does not like. He hates people at work and considers them toxic. The narcissist is now forced to do various activities that he does not like and previously you did them for him.
To a narcissist, the grass always seems greener on the other side of the street. Any other new person will be more attractive to the narcissist simply because is new.
When the narcissist leaves, that’s when reality begins to hit him. The narcissist begins to realize that life without you is not so easy. Then the narcissist comes back, then he tries to hoover you, to draw you back into the relationship once again. Sometimes a narcissist doesn’t come back because he doesn’t want you to see him in the state he has reduced himself to. His pride did not allow him to come back to you. The narcissist waits for you to contact him first.
The narcissist is a mentally small child and in his own way plays hide and seek with you. The narcissist has been through a lot since you two are no longer together, and he doesn’t want you to know about it. This affected his physical and mental health. Some of them lose weight, some of them gain weight, some of them become addicts either way the narcissist usually looks worse than before he left you or before you left him.
A narcissist often has trouble taking care of themselves. A narcissist needs a mother, he needs a rescuer. Narcissists are hypersensitive and suffer from a lot of stress, and some end up with severe depression. If the new source of supply is struggling with various problems, sometimes even those created by the narcissist, the narcissist will not be with someone like that for long, he will not be with someone who drags him down. A narcissist needs a person who will lift him up, he needs a person who he can bring down to his level to make him feel better so he can regulate his emotions.
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