You will always go through the same process every time you contact her or respond to her.
It is alarming how many of us think we can change a person. This is more a reflection of our own low sense of self-worth and our intention to control others. We cannot really control anyone other than ourselves.
So every time you think you can control her, you will end up going through the same process, and she will always not care about you. She will always value you, then devalue you, then discard you rather coldly; there is no exception to this rule.
If you didn’t read that last part, there is no exception to this rule.
They will always discard you in the end; they are afraid of love.
It is important to be clear that a person who is a narcissist and behaves in the manner that we have described is actually afraid of love. Unlike people who are challenged with relationships, instead of clinging on to a relationship that is about to break, they actually facilitate the breakup.
Yes, they are afraid of you abandoning them in the end, so they facilitate the breakup on their own terms instead of going through with a relationship that could break up with them losing out.
So they make sure it ends on their terms. As such, they are never fully invested emotionally in the relationship and are always ready to let you go at any sign of weakness or disagreement in the relationship. They want you to break up with them and engineer it, ultimately giving them a sense of control over the relationship breakup.
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