To consolidate control, narcissists may physically isolate their spouse from their family, refusing to spend time with them or even convincing the spouse to move away. This physical distance, combined with the existing emotional isolation, gives the narcissist almost total control over the narrative and their spouse’s perceptions.
Sustaining Feuds from Afar
Even at a distance, narcissists can keep family feuds simmering. They use allies within the family, social media posts, or subtle provocations to maintain conflict. This creates a complex, chaotic environment where it’s nearly impossible to trace the origins of the discord, leaving the narcissist’s manipulations undetected.
Final Thoughts
Narcissists seek total control over their spouse, and eliminating family support is a crucial step in achieving this goal. By dismantling family networks and isolating their partner, narcissists ensure their dominance and extend their manipulation. The family becomes collateral damage in the narcissist’s relentless pursuit of power. Recognizing these tactics is the first step in defending against them and protecting familial bonds.
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