If you’re wondering how narcissists make up after a conflict, the least you should expect is an apology. Narcissists tend to be very self-centered and take credit for everything, rarely taking responsibility for their actions. Instead, they often blame others when things don’t meet their expectations. A narcissist may even fabricate stories to gain your sympathy. Their ego needs constant inflation, often achieved through manipulation and control. Here are five common strategies narcissists use to “make up” without truly addressing the problem:
1. Silent Treatment
A narcissist might give you the silent treatment, forcing you to approach them first. This can last for days or even weeks, depending on how long it takes for you to initiate contact. The goal is for you to forget the real issue and reconcile as if nothing happened.
2. Giving You Space and Time
This tactic mimics the silent treatment but is disguised as giving both parties time to reflect. While it seems considerate, the ultimate aim is to make you drop the issue. When you come back together, they expect you to avoid mentioning the conflict, allowing the cycle to repeat.
3. Pretending to Listen
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