When a narcissist joins a family through marriage, the once harmonious environment can quickly descend into chaos. Where peace and unity once prevailed, conflicts erupt, communication breaks down, and alliances form. Despite these drastic changes, many fail to recognize the narcissist pulling the strings. This article reveals the subtle ways narcissists divide families undetected.
The Charming First Impression
Narcissists are masters of making a good first impression. They start by being pleasant, kind, and considerate, projecting an image that couldn’t be further from their true nature. This initial charm offensive is strategic; they aim to win over influential family members, ensuring these individuals will vouch for them, making it harder for others to see their true nature.
Gradual Brainwashing of the Spouse
One of the first targets of a narcissist’s manipulation is their spouse. This brainwashing process is subtle and insidious, often framed as discussions about loyalty and prioritizing each other in the relationship. These seemingly benign sentiments are intended to ensure the spouse’s unwavering support and silence about the narcissist’s true behavior behind closed doors.
Exploiting Faults
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