That’s why it’s crucial to heal from codependency. I want you to feel okay, even when others aren’t okay with you. If you’re struggling with codependency, be sure to check out my online course, Conquering Codependency Biblically. I’ll include a link in the description below. Remember, no codependency means no control.
Number six is one of my favorites, and it’s the one that so many people come to me wanting to become—the Boundary Boss. People who assert strong boundaries and maintain a high level of autonomy are often intolerable to narcissists. Narcissists thrive on control and influence, and they always surround themselves with yes-men and yes-women who don’t push back. The ironic thing is that this very quality makes them not respect you—talk about a double hit. Often, you don’t say no to them to keep them happy with you, but your unwillingness to say no is actually what makes them think less of you. Your ability to say no, even if it makes you feel guilty, can make you a repellent to a narcissist as they will move on to an easier target.
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