Number five: The Ultimate Realization: Energetic Exorcism. You become the source gutter, the eraser. This is the ultimate realization that happens at the end. Most people leave a narcissist but stay energetically attached—unintentionally, unwillingly, unconsciously, and unknowingly. They check the narcissist’s social media; they ask friends about them, and they hold on to the hate for obvious reasons: because they were wronged, they were abused, and it’s their righteous anger. The narcissist loves this, though; even negative attention is still attention.
But the wrong one performs a total energetic exorcism. You do not just break up; you erase them. You withdraw your life force completely. You do not check their page, you do not talk about them, and you do not hate them either. You simply remove your energy from their existence. They feel this even from miles away; they feel the sudden, terrifying drop in supply. It’s like a vampire whose food source just vanished into thin air. They realize they didn’t discard you; you discarded them—not just physically, but spiritually. You took your light back and left them alone in the dark, and that’s where they belong.
Being the wrong one is not about revenge; it’s about assuming your true stature. It’s about standing so tall in your truth that their lies can no longer reach your face. It’s about realizing that the very things they tried to destroy—your empathy, your sensitivity, and your spirit—were actually the weapons that would eventually defeat them. You did not just survive the narcissist; you exposed them. And in doing so, you freed yourself.
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