You will become like her—unhappy and shallow.
The more you stay with a person who has low values, the more you will become like them. It is true that the sum of your closest friends and the people you hang around with will determine the value of your life in terms of wealth, love, happiness, and so forth.
She is not a happy person; no narcissist ever is, so by being with them, you will become exactly like them. After you first discover how they are, you will want to take revenge and play their game, but they are experts and do this for a living in order to survive their own personal challenges. Hence, you will always fail at this game, as they are far better than you at it. So it is better that you focus on who you really are and tap into your own strengths.
There is a saying: The longer you look into the abyss, it will look back at you. Don’t risk changing who you are for someone who is not worth it. She will never be worth it.
She does not care about you; you are an extension of her.
At all times, it is important to know that they view you only as an extension of them. They will never respect you but believe that you will run to them, need them, and always idolize them; essentially, they believe you are a part of them that they own and control. When they need something or feel they are losing control of you, they will become very caring and sweet, but always remember that this is designed to recapture you as their prey.
If you don’t give them what they want, when they want it, you will notice that they get very angry and will project worthless remarks and actions onto you or punish you with violent behavior or actions that will hurt you emotionally.
A Narcissist Always Returns (The Hoovering)
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