When dealing with a narcissist, it can be hard to know how much to care about their feelings. Narcissists are people who have an inflated sense of self-importance and entitlement, so when you show them that you care too much about them and their feelings, they’ll probably just take advantage of that. However, if you…
The trauma of surviving a narcissistic relationship can be so profound that it triggers extreme coping mechanisms in survivors. It can alter their personality, leading them to behave in ways that may not align with their core identity. For example, you might become an obsessive cleaner, scrubbing dishes for hours until every speck of dirt…
I know many of you have this question: What happens when the narcissist’s mask falls off? Let’s set the scene. You’re in a relationship with a narcissistic person. Maybe they’re stretched thin in their lives — their promotion didn’t come through, or a few things they felt entitled to didn’t work out as they expected….
Did you know that two of the most damaging effects of narcissistic abuse are chronic fatigue and burnout? You may feel like you’re running on empty, no matter how much sleep you get. If you’ve been caught in the web of narcissistic abuse, you might know that feeling all too well. It can also leave…
If you’ve ever encountered someone who believes they’re the center of the universe, you might suspect they show signs of narcissism. But did you know there are four distinct types? In this article, we’ll delve into each one, helping you understand their differences and how to better interact with these individuals. Before we dive in,…
Calling a narcissist out on a lie can be an emotionally exhausting and often futile experience. Narcissists are skilled liars, and their deceit goes beyond simple dishonesty. For them, lying serves a critical psychological purpose—it upholds their fragile sense of self and their grandiose perception of who they believe they are. When you challenge a…
Narcissists are extremely competitive and selfish individuals. Therefore, it should be no surprise that they desire to see you fail. It is imperative for the narcissist that you are a disappointment—both to yourself and to others, including them. Today, I am going to go through eight reasons why the narcissist may want you to fail….
Today I want to delve into ten very bizarre things that narcissists get angry at, and there will ultimately be a point to this at the end. So, let’s get started! I want to clarify that all ten of these things are based on my personal experiences or conversations I’ve had with people who have…
The first thing narcissists want during the holidays is control over your emotional state. Isn’t it true that during special occasions, everyone—even difficult people—strives to be their best and feel happier than they normally do? It’s almost like they put forth extra effort to do so. Narcissists are not like that. After all, who is…
As a narcissistic abuse survivor, you may already know what reactive abuse is, but what you may not be aware of are the different mind games a narcissist plays to provoke a strong reaction from you. You might say, “Oh, I know they push people’s buttons to get a strong emotional response,” and you’d be…