You’re more likely, once you’ve identified that someone is a narcissist and you know what you have to do, even though it’s hard. Even if you’re still in the trauma and everything in you tells you that you want to go back, you know what you have to do, and you’re willing to do it. When it comes to other people, the narcissist knows they can get to you. So, they might use other people to make you feel guilty for cutting the narcissist out of your life and possibly cutting other people out of your life.
The goal in making you feel guilty is to get you back under control. So, if you let these people back into your life, and they are flying monkeys, the narcissist is going to learn more about you and they’re going to have a path to get to you. These people may tell you information about the narcissist and they may get information from you and give it to the narcissist, so that narcissist has an open path again where you had previously closed it.
It’s just another way to get you under control. You can be sure that the narcissist does not care about anyone else’s emotions; they don’t care that somebody else has hurt feelings. They only bring it up to get to you.
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