Ever wonder what’s up with the narcissist’s unprovoked and unwarranted contempt, stinging their hate? Well, that’s what I’m covering in this article. Let’s do it!
Navigating relationships with narcissists can be a real challenge; there’s no question about that. Many of us have had that experience with their toxic attitudes and behaviors firsthand throughout our lives. Today, I’m going to explore the specific personalities and traits that narcissists simply cannot stand. In doing so, it’s my hope that by providing a better understanding, you’ll not only have your feelings, experiences, and perceptions of reality validated but also feel empowered to heal and thrive as you move on from whatever form of narcissistic abuse you’ve endured.
Please remember that this information is for educational purposes only and isn’t meant to diagnose anyone who may or may not have a personality disorder. Always seek professional help, guidance, and support if you’re dealing with a narcissist in any area of your life.
Now, with that said, let’s get into it. First up, the personality type the narcissist does not like is the empathic soul. With the exception of the degree to which they can manipulate and exploit empathy, narcissists find it challenging to deal with individuals who are genuinely compassionate, empathic, and caring. Why? Well, because your loving nature exposes their lack of empathy and emotional depth, your ability to genuinely care for others threatens their facade of superiority and self-importance. Empaths often try to see the good in everyone, which can make them a good target for manipulation. If you’re an empowered empath who has undergone healing and recovery, particularly from codependency, narcissists don’t like that they can’t easily exploit you and your kindness. So, they’ll likely try to undermine your self-worth. Remember, your empathic nature is a beautiful gift; don’t ever let anyone try to diminish that.
Next, let’s talk about independent spirits. If you’re a strong, independent person who knows her worth and can stand on her own two feet, the narcissist may very well despise you for it. Your self-reliance threatens their need for admiration and control, and it makes it far less likely that they’ll be able to dominate you without some pushback or consequence. Narcissists crave power and dominance in their relationships, and an independent spirit like yours can make them feel inadequate. That’s when they’ll try to belittle you or your achievements, or they’ll try to get you to doubt your capabilities. Whatever you do, stay true to yourself, maintain your independence, and never let anyone attempt to dim your shine.
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