Let me give you another example: you are having a conversation with a narcissist, trying to explain why both of you should work together to fix the relationship. You ask them, “Do you think we need help?” They reply, “Why would I need help? I’m not the problem.” You say, “I’m talking about both of us,” and they respond, “What do you mean by ‘both of us’? Are you saying I am a bad partner? Do you think you are perfect? Do you never make mistakes?” You can see the pattern here—they don’t answer the question and always try to deflect responsibility onto you. This is counter-questioning. They use it to avoid taking responsibility and to make you feel like you are the one who is wrong, even when you are not.
These are just a few examples of the subtle ways narcissists can manipulate and annoy you. It’s important to recognize these behaviors and understand that they are part of a larger pattern of abuse. If you find yourself in a relationship with a narcissist, it’s crucial to set boundaries and seek support. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and you have the right to protect yourself from toxic behavior.
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