Okay. So number two, this is like when it gets to be even kind of more yucky, just kind of notice like this is where they don’t like having to do this. This is where they kind of resent having to do something for someone else. They prefer the gifts and attention to be on them for Valentine’s Day, and they will resent having to do something for their quote, unquote partner for Valentine’s Day. So they’re going to expect special treatment on Valentine’s Day. They want to be made the center of attention that day, so they’ll expect special treatment. They’ll expect you to do something for them. You know, even if it’s what the guy was just saying. You know, they’ll expect you to do, you know, maybe make the special meal do the thing, whatever it is. And I actually have a whole article on narcissistic gift-giving and why they just don’t like having to do this kind of thing in general, and it’s really so gross that you should definitely check out my article on narcissistic gift-giving. If you think it is so gross, just give me a so gross in the comments below, and I’d love to hear your thoughts on this whole thing and what you guys are doing, and I would just say, you know, take care of yourself on this day, you know, make it a day of just self-care, make it a day of clearing that this is a day for yourself on being powerful and being a day of your own declaration, of your own self-care, of your own mindset, and just say I create my freedom and I create myself, and that is who I am, and not having this be a day of expectation of that, you know.
Anyway, moving on to number three, on Valentine’s Day. So that’s another trick that you can expect from them on Valentine’s Day. They want that attention from them. They will make you feel guilty if you try to spend time with anyone or focus on anyone other than them on Valentine’s Day. So that is another thing that you can expect from them on Valentine’s Day because they want all of the attention to be on them. So it really is not necessarily a fun day. If you have a narcissist for a Valentine, you know they use it as an opportunity to devalue you. They use it as an opportunity to make you feel less.
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