Many people do not fully understand narcissistic collapse for what it truly is. They often think, Oh, when a narcissist falls apart, they stop abusing others. But that’s not the case. In fact, their abusive behavior often intensifies. Why does this happen? Because their usual methods of functioning no longer serve them.
For instance, the carefully crafted image they projected to the world is shattered, leaving them unable to manipulate people as effectively as before. Their usual tactics no longer work. So, what do they do? They become an even nastier version of themselves.
As their facade crumbles, they grow impatient and volatile, making it unbearable for others to be around them. People often avoid them altogether, and this isolation only exacerbates their behavior. Below, I will discuss seven behaviors commonly observed after a major narcissistic collapse.
Let me be blunt: a narcissist’s abuse only stops when they pass away. This may sound harsh, but I’ve witnessed it firsthand with my psychopathic, narcissistic grandfather. The older he got, the harder it became for his caretakers to manage him.
Behavior 1: Extreme Isolation
A collapsed narcissist often retreats into extreme isolation. They avoid social events, refuse to interact with anyone, and may appear depressed and withdrawn. Why does this happen? Because they feel weak, fragile, and vulnerable—and they don’t want others to see them this way.
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