Narcissists hate losing their supply, so they won’t let you go easily. If you leave the relationship, be prepared for begging and pleading. It’s the same old grandstanding cues, saying the right things that matter to you. They’ll call up your family and friends to get in touch with you. They’ll definitely contact you on significant dates on your calendar, like your birthday or anniversaries. All these charming gestures don’t compensate for the fact that a narcissist doesn’t know what it means to miss someone. They keep admirers close to maintain a constant supply of the attention they want. They’re only back because they think they can leverage you to meet their needs.
9 Never let your guard down.
Remain in control as much as you can. Define the boundaries of the relationship, be it at work or on a date. Narcissists come off as endearing and considerate at first, but they always revert to their default controlling nature. They believe they are more competent, and their way is the only way. Practice making your own choices. Make every small and big decision based on what is best for you. Enjoying the video so far? Then don’t forget to subscribe to the channel for more insightful psychology videos like this one. You’ll only get smarter, and it’s free.
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8 Don’t try to prove them wrong.
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