This self-doubt forces you to change yourself, this crippling self-doubt forces you to give more of yourself, sacrifice yourself. But as I explained earlier, nothing is ever enough. Slowly, you recognize that it is a cult, it is a cult of which this narcissistic partner of yours is a member. They have signed an unconscious pact, and they are never going to break it. They are never going to be disloyal to their parents; they will be disloyal to you, they will be disloyal towards your children. They will give their family all the money, all the resources, unlimited access to anybody from their family. They will let them walk over you like you are a doormat, treat you like you do not belong, like you are some kind of second-class citizen, and they will act like they don’t have a say. They will act like they don’t have a tongue, or they are not seeing anything.
The unspoken injustices in this case are innumerable. I can’t tell you in what ways a victim gets abused when it is collective in nature, when everybody is copying the main abuser, tormenting this poor soul, and there is nobody they can rely on, nobody they can go to. He or she tries and tries and tries until there’s nothing left in them to try with. It’s such a horrible thing to go through, and I’m so sorry if this is what you have experienced. Drop your experiences in the comments below if you have been a victim of this collective abuse. Talk about how your partner always chose their family over you and how that made you feel, and you will see a lot of people will connect with you because probably they have been through a similar experience.
The ultimate hypocrisy of a narcissist gets manifested when they talk bad about their family. But when you do the same, and you’re not talking bad, you are speaking the truth, they get angry. How dare you talk about my father like that? How could you use those words for my so-and-so? Come on, you do the same thing when it is convenient for you, and I am there listening, I am understanding you, and I’m empathizing with your pain, and I say I’ll do my best to help you out. And when it comes to me and it’s my turn to express myself, you instantly make me feel like I’m an enemy, and I am disgracing them, I am humiliating them for no reason. It’s like they’re blind. All of this, well, they’re not; they know it, but they don’t care about the deeper truth.
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