Once the relationship ends and the grieving process begins, it can be daunting to try to move forward. But it’s vital to remember that the end is not always final and that there is always hope for better things to come. While we can’t deny the initial charm that attracts us to a narcissist—their seductive grins, charming personalities, and seemingly successful careers—once we dig deeper, we realize that it’s all facade, and their true selves are far from pretty.
The truth is that these individuals reflect their character onto the company they keep. A good person with good intentions will attract decent people, and their relationships will flourish. For narcissists, though, it’s the opposite. Trust me, they never have your back, and you learn that the hard way. So why do narcissists miss you if they never truly valued you and your efforts? It’s alarming: they miss the superficial acts you did for them. Narcissists are superficial beings who don’t understand the real meaning of building trust and authentic relationships. A genuine person supports you when you’re down, and the more you support them, the stronger the connection becomes. However, narcissistic people perceive relationships as disposable and never truly comprehend the importance of meaningful connections.
As tragic as it is to think about, narcissists genuinely miss you—not for the right reasons, but because you served their superficial needs and desires. These individuals are addicted to their supply and will do just about anything to get it, even if it means lying about loving you, stealing your money, or manipulating you into fulfilling their desires. When forced to confront the consequences of their actions, they begin to understand how badly they have treated others.
While it’s easy to think of narcissists as delusional and crazy, they can be lucid and engaging in their conversations, making it challenging to fully comprehend their intentions and desires. Although many are products of neglect or abuse in their upbringing, we must guard our mental health and let them go. By doing so, we move on from their superficial needs and desires and build true, meaningful connections with those who genuinely value us.
In conclusion, we must realize that narcissists are complicated individuals, and the reasons behind why they miss us can differ vastly from our reasons for missing them. We must let go and focus on building real, authentic relationships with those who deserve us. So let’s make today the day we take one step closer to a more peaceful and fulfilling life.
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