Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s been requested over and over again: what happens when a narcissist realizes you know? When you finally crack the code and see through their façade, what’s next? So, when I say the narcissist knows you know, what exactly does that mean? It’s like you’ve finally put the pieces…
When a narcissist meets a person they cannot fool or manipulate, they feel threatened and challenged. They do not retreat, do they? They react. They double down in subtle, calculated ways to maintain power and control. They move into damage control mode because, for them, there is no other option. The tactics they use aren’t…
When it becomes evident that you have a backbone, dignity, integrity, and self-respect? You have standards and boundaries. What happens when they see you have the capacity for wise discernment and are therefore onto them? You are your own person, know your mind, and aren’t open to—or available for—manipulative control and power dynamics in any…
Since narcissists prey on those they perceive as weaker, they will persist until they get what they want or need. It’s almost as if a switch flips in a narcissist’s mind, and they sense vulnerability. From that point on, it’s virtually game over. Some narcissists enjoy the pursuit more than the result, so they will…
You’ve been told a lie: Empaths do not attract narcissists. Rather, it is the narcissist who desperately seeks out an empath. Why? Because they view the empath as a key—a way to unstick themselves from the emotional purgatory they’ve been trapped in since childhood. Unconsciously, they latch onto the empath, hoping the relationship will fix…
Remember that one of the central mantras of a narcissistic relationship is: “You can’t win.” You can’t ask for a script, and you can’t even figure out how to say it because they don’t even know the right answer. So, everyone talks about how to stay in touch with a narcissist—low contact, no contact, yellow…
It’s a fact: narcissists are everywhere! Many are so well hidden in our society that you’d be surprised to discover who among the pillars of our community might actually be a narcissist. As a result, it’s nearly impossible to separate or eradicate them, as some people might wish. I often receive comments from viewers asking…
Today’s topic is all about when a narcissist cannot stop thinking about you. This applies to all narcissists, whether they are a narcissistic parent, friend, co-worker, family member, or romantic partner. First, I need to address the fact that narcissists often leave people trauma-bonded and without closure, which leaves victims in a state of distress…
Have you ever paused to wonder why your relationship with a narcissist felt doomed from the start? As though you were trapped in a web of manipulation, deceit, and selfishness—only to realize, at some point, that you were never truly meant to stay forever? What if I told you that your role wasn’t to be…
When a narcissist feels defeated, their ego crumbles, and they realize they can no longer bring you down. This is when their true nature emerges. They lose control—it’s as if a mask shatters, revealing their insecure, childlike impulsiveness. Reactivity becomes their go-to mode of operation as they transform into desperate, petty individuals playing games with…