Narcissists accuse a lot, don’t they? I mean, that is the only thing they do well. But right now, I’m talking about accusing people of things they haven’t even done or said yet. The narcissist becomes extremely hypervigilant during this stage and assumes that something was done or said to them without any proof or evidence at all. And then that is what leads to ghosting, that is what leads to further abuse, that’s what leads to more trauma and all sorts of things. And ultimately, for the narcissist, that leads to extreme isolation. Think about it for a second. Who wants to be around a person who is always questioning one’s motives, who never trusts no matter what, who always blames you no matter how much you’re doing for them and in what ways you’re taking care of them? They’ll say, “Oh, you did this and you do that,” when you very clearly know you did not.
So naturally, a day comes when everybody chooses to leave them, abandon them, and stop caring for them because they don’t care about your compassion at all. They just want fuel, and they want you to fix a problem that only they can fix.
So those are the five things a narcissist may do during the collapse, and the outcome is, that it keeps getting worse, it never gets better. Occasionally, you would see a narcissist rebounding and coming back from the stage, but in most cases, they just fade away like that. It’s just that the virus in their body has now spread fully to every part there’s no recovering from it.
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