Because narcissists don’t run from the truth; they run from shame. They run from people seeing them as weak, dirty, dishonest, or anything less than perfect. No shame, no guarantee. They’ll assume you’ll cool down; that time will soften your memory; that you’ll forget the hell they put you through. And one day, when the coast looks clear, they’ll come creeping back like nothing happened.
So if you want to keep that door slammed, locked, and welded shut, don’t just discard and expose. Shatter the illusion. Name the shame, then vanish. That’s the kind of silence they don’t know how to answer.
These narcissists? They’re like confused, backward-walking giraffes, standing there staring at you like you’re the crazy one. They’ll pop back up like nothing ever happened, smile on their face, voice full of fake concern, texting just to check in after they left you shattered in pieces. It’s madness, but that’s their game.
But here’s the truth: unless you’ve hit them hard, unless you’ve humiliated that ego and stained their name with shame, they’ll think the door’s still cracked open. You have to make it crystal clear: this house ain’t safe for them anymore. You’ve got to make those unshakable promises to yourself—the kind that say, “If you even think about coming back here, you’re stepping into an emotional minefield.”
And they’ll feel it. They’ll look at you and realize you know the truth now. You’ve got the blueprint, and more importantly, you’ve got nothing left for them to take. That’s when they stop knocking—not because they respect you, but because the supply dried up, the illusion shattered, and they know they’re not welcome in your healed space.
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