The deeper truth to all of this is that in a narcissistic family, you would not get to see any form of individuality. There are no individual people with separate personalities, of course not; they’re copies of each other. That’s why they have been rightfully called minions. Yes, that is what they are, and they do not have separate minds; their minds are extensions of the overall mindset. It’s like a hive of wasps; there is this queen wasp, the matriarch, the patriarch, and then their way of thinking is passed down to these small bees. They think the same way, they don’t think any differently, there is a core belief system at the center of this hive that runs the entire narcissistic family cult. There is a pact that binds all of them together; if you touch one bee, the entire hive will be after you. That is how this dysfunctional family unit functions. They protect their own at any cost!
Essentially, if you attack one bee or the queen bee, of course, the other bee that is your bee is going to sting you, is going to attack you because they perceive it as an attack on their false ego. Since there is a similarity between their false self and the major false self, it is just a reflection of the same; it’s an extension. There is no difference at the root, at the psychological level; it’s just an extension. They don’t have any true personality. That explains everything.
So, my suggestion is if you’re dealing with such a rotten family, leave, cut off, nobody is going to help you. Don’t go to them for support; they are the same beings. This chaos that you’re dealing with in the form of your narcissistic partner has to have an origin, and clearly, in this case, what is that origin? The family that they came from.
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