It is up to you at this point to decide whether or not you want to let the narcissist back into your life or whether you can free yourself from their control. It is essential that you are aware of the fact that the motivation behind their desire to get back in touch is not rooted in the intention of mending the relationship or ensuring that it is successful. That is not at all what they intend to accomplish. This is solely about satisfying their own needs, whether it be for attention, emotional energy, or any other form of emotional sustenance they can extract from you. They recognize an opportunity to capitalize on your generosity, compassion, and vitality. Be conscious of the fact that they are acting solely for their own benefit and that they may also have the goal of upsetting the balance of happiness and contentment that you have worked so hard to achieve.
This problem centers on the narcissist and the hidden goals they have in mind for themselves. Regardless of the result, I strongly advise you to proceed with extreme caution and seriously consider whether or not you should even respond at all. Interacting with a narcissist inadvertently sends the message that you are willing to keep participating in their game, which is not the objective of the situation. Think about the reasons that led this person to make contact with you in the first place. They are well aware that you have discovered the truth about who they are. Consequently, what are their reasons for acting this way? They are acting in a completely inconsiderate manner toward your abilities and boundaries, which is completely unacceptable.
What exactly happens when a narcissist contacts you despite the fact that you are aware of their true nature and the strategies they use to manipulate you? Isn’t that a puzzling way to think about it after you’ve unearthed their true nature and blown the cover on their façade? Why would a narcissist want to engage in conversation with you? A narcissist will only make contact with you if they feel like they have something to gain from the interaction. They are willing to pursue something from you despite the fact that you are aware of the narcissistic tendencies that they have. They are taking a chance, putting your generosity and compassion to the test in an effort to draw you back into the web that they have woven for you. They want to test their ability to regain control and see if they can exert influence over you. However, they are unaware of the fact that you are now able to see through their techniques of manipulation. They are testing your vulnerability and making another attempt to manipulate you, but this time you are better prepared because you have more information and are more aware. They are attempting to ascertain whether or not they can continue to exert authority over you. Nevertheless, the importance of your response to their communication cannot be overstated. If they believe you are unresponsive, they may choose to abandon their efforts or step up their pursuit of you. This is typically the most desirable but not always the most straightforward course of action to take. It is of the utmost importance to be aware of these strategies, as well as what the narcissist truly wants from you. They will seize the opportunity to get your attention and easily obtain what they require from you if you engage in a back-and-forth with them. If you do this, be prepared for this to happen.
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