Many people in narcissistic relationships ask themselves whether the relationship can survive once the lies have been exposed. The reality is that calling out a narcissist on their dishonesty won’t lead to an “aha” moment of accountability or genuine remorse. Even with overwhelming evidence, the narcissist is unlikely to change. They might offer a superficial apology or future promises to do better, but these gestures are often just a part of their manipulation.
If you decide to stay in the relationship, you must come to terms with the fact that you are dealing with a person who cannot be trusted. This can lead to a deeply superficial and unfulfilling relationship, where you must constantly question what’s real and what’s fabricated.
Finding Your Own Power
For some, confronting a narcissist about their lies can serve as a way to regain a sense of power in the relationship. Even if the narcissist doesn’t admit to their dishonesty, simply letting them know that you’re aware of their deceit can shift the dynamics. The narcissist may not admit to their lie, but they understand that you see through their façade.
However, this power comes at a cost. To stay in the relationship means accepting that trust will always be an issue. You will have to learn to navigate the lies, take everything they say with a grain of salt, and protect your own mental and emotional well-being. Over time, this can take a significant toll on your self-esteem and overall happiness.
Conclusion
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