Today, we are lifting the veil on abusive relationships. I’m going to tell you exactly what will be in store for you if you get involved with an abusive partner. We will be discussing all of their most secretive and psychologically abusive manipulation tactics that many times take a target years, if not decades, to figure out. Today, I will explain the most common manipulative tactics that all abusive people use to gain power and control over another human being.
So today, we are talking about what an abusive person would tell you if they were honest and what will be in store for you if and when you get into a relationship with an abuser. The first thing they would tell you, if they were honest, is that they do not want an equal nor will they ever treat you like one. After their mask comes off, they want a servant. Initially, they might dress up their language in love, offering affection, attention, and promises of forever. But beneath the surface, the goal isn’t love; it’s domination.
They want submission that looks like devotion and obedience, which feels like connection because that is the only way they experience love. You’ll think you’re building a relationship while they are slowly grooming you for the role of servant. Every time you silence your intuition to keep the peace, every time you make yourself smaller to avoid their wrath, you’re handing them another brick. By the time you realize that love was never the point—control was—it will be too late.
Next, if the abuser were honest, they would tell you that in the beginning, they’ll be everything you’ve ever wanted because they’ll study you. They’ll mirror your dreams, your values, your wounds. They’ll reflect light back to you so perfectly that you’ll believe you’ve finally found your soulmate. But it’s all bait. They are not becoming who you need because they care; they are becoming your dream so they can later become your addiction.
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