The second reason calling out a narcissist doesn’t work is that it’s not meant to. This isn’t their lesson; it’s ours.
As adults, our experiences are our responsibility—not anyone else’s. When we make our happiness or healing dependent on another person’s actions, we give away our power.
Expecting a narcissist to change so you can feel safe and whole is futile. They thrive on drama and attention, whether positive or negative. Calling them out only hooks you further into their world.
Real healing begins when we stop looking outward for validation and start addressing our inner wounds. This means letting go of attachment to the narcissist and taking full responsibility for our emotional well-being.
The Truth About Calling Out a Narcissist
Calling out a narcissist won’t lead to their healing or change. It will only escalate the situation and deepen your own pain. The healthiest choice is to let them go, focus inward, and heal the parts of yourself that kept you attached to them in the first place.
For me, the turning point came when I said to narcissist number two, “I know you’re a narcissist. I’m done. I’m gone.” I meant it, and I never looked back.
From that moment, I turned inward, using Quantum Freedom Healing to address the wounds the narcissist had triggered. Now, I’m thriving, living the life I was meant to live.
If you’re struggling with a narcissist in your life, I hope this has inspired you to focus on your healing instead of trying to change them. Let go, turn inward, and discover the freedom and joy that come from living as your true self.
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