The man who is hiding in plain sight each and every day, in every waking minute. Narcissists put on a mask to disguise who they really are, what they’re ashamed of, what they pretend they aren’t, and what they have to hide, even from themselves. For the most part, they never disclose to anyone, including…
Why do narcissists deceive and defraud others? Narcissists prefer maintaining secrets because it offers them power and control over their environment. However, talking about secrets, there is one that stands out among the others because it has a direct impact on all parties involved. One thing is clear: narcissistic supplies are a necessity for them,…
If you are constantly avoiding cleaning and tidying up, you need to stop and think. When you’re experiencing narcissistic abuse, it’s easy to let clutter build up because your mind is already tangled in feelings of guilt, confusion, or even fear. After all, when you’ve spent so much time dealing with someone else’s chaos, it…
A narcissist is their own biggest enemy. They can fool others, manipulate situations, and spin stories, but in the end, they are the architects of their own downfall. They do not need enemies because they do a perfectly fine job of ruining their own lives. The Illusion of a Fresh Start They may have walked…
Today’s, we are talking about one of the narcissist’s very favorite manipulation tactics that they use to escape accountability and shift blame for something they did right back onto you. It’s a dirty and very psychologically abusive trick. Today, we’re discussing how narcissists weaponize your normal reactions to their behavior, labeling you as “too sensitive….
Narcissists have their reasons for leaving their victims feeling lost and isolated, and honestly, it’s not by accident. If you’ve ever been caught in a relationship with a narcissist, you know the feeling all too well. One minute, everything seems fine, and the next, you’re left questioning your thoughts, feelings, and sense of reality. Narcissists…
A common theme that I hear in my counseling office is the theme of agony. There are times when people come into my office and talk with me about the pain and misery they experience, especially when they realize that someone they wanted to have a close relationship with has turned out to be very…
As you invest in your primary relationships, there are certain basics you want to maintain so that the relationship can provide the deepest level of reward for you. It can bring out the very best in who you are and who those in front of you will want to be. Among those healthy characteristics are…
Today, I want to talk about how the narcissist knows they have lost you. How do they know when someone will be of no use to them? How do they weed out the good sources of supply from the bad ones? Narcissists love having people around them, but every so often, they lose out on…
At first, he seemed perfect. He texted me all day, planned dream dates, and told me I was ‘the one’ within weeks. But six months later, I was crying in my therapist’s office, asking, ‘How did I miss the red flags?’” Narcissists are masters of disguise. They don’t show up wearing a villain’s cape—they show…