A narcissist is their own biggest enemy. They can fool others, manipulate situations, and spin stories, but in the end, they are the architects of their own downfall. They do not need enemies because they do a perfectly fine job of ruining their own lives.
The Illusion of a Fresh Start
They may have walked away from you, discarding you like you never mattered, convinced that they are upgrading their life with a new partner, a new job, and a new series of excitement. In their delusional mind, this is their fresh start. What they do not realize is that their fresh start is just the first step toward their next collapse.
The topic for today’s episode is how a narcissist has already planned their next collapse without knowing. You see, that narcissist believes the problem was you. They have convinced themselves that if they just found the right person, the right job, or the right opportunity, everything would be perfect.
The mistake in their thinking is so massive and catastrophic that it guarantees their next downfall before they have even begun. The problem was never the job, the relationship, or the people around them; the problem is them. They are the common denominator. They create chaos wherever they go, sabotage relationships, destroy trust, and burn bridges. No matter how many chances they get, they will always find a new way to set their own life on fire. Right now, they are doing it again—they just do not know it yet.
The Cycle of Relationship Sabotage
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