Sometimes, narcissists might think they want to reconcile with you to get you back, but they’re stuck in a weird cycle of revenge and anger. It’s like they’re on a roller coaster with their thoughts, spending all day thinking about you, then doing the same thing the next day and the day after that. It’s a loop of anger, revenge, and pretending like nothing’s wrong. They might wonder if they should try to reel you back in, what we call “hoovering.” It’s like they want to suck you back into their lives, just like a vacuum cleaner. Or maybe they’ll try to find someone else to distract them from thinking about you. But no matter what, they always end up back at square one, feeling angry and sorry for themselves.
So, do narcissists get angry? Absolutely! They become enraged when they don’t receive the reaction they desire from you. For them, your lack of suffering is seen as a personal attack. It’s all part of their twisted belief that they deserve to be happy, even at the expense of others’ misery.
Understanding the thought patterns and behaviors of narcissists is crucial when dealing with them. Their attempts to reconcile are merely strategies to maintain control and continue exploiting you. Their repetitive cycle of anger, retaliation, and denial illustrates their entrenched negative mindset. They feed off others’ distress to bolster their own sense of satisfaction, which is fundamentally unjust.
By comprehending these dynamics, you can navigate interactions with narcissists more effectively and safeguard yourself from their detrimental actions. Dealing with narcissists is undeniably challenging, but insight into their motivations can provide some relief.
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