As someone who values authenticity, you’re unafraid to point out problems or demand reciprocity in relationships. This honesty can be off-putting to people who are accustomed to shallow interactions or constant validation. While narcissists thrive on praise and ego boosts, you demand effort and sincerity, which not everyone is willing to provide.
Being labeled as “rude” or “inconsiderate” often stems from your unwillingness to settle for one-sided relationships. You prioritize genuine connection over superficiality, even if it means having fewer friends.
Reason #4: Your Trust Has Been Shattered
Narcissistic abuse fundamentally changes how you perceive trust. Having been deeply betrayed by someone you believed in—whether a partner, parent, or friend—it becomes challenging to trust others. Your brain associates relationships with pain and betrayal, making you cautious about opening up again.
While you want to build new connections, the fear of being hurt again often overshadows your desire to take risks.
Reason #5: Friendships Feel High-Maintenance
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