No matter how much I do, it’s still never enough for you.” And in reality, they do nothing at all, and they just move a little bit when you want. You know, enough space; they may give you an inch, or let’s say, a centimeter, and say, “Be fine with it; now breathe in that centimeter.” You might say, “Oh no, that’s not possible; I need more; I’m a human being; I am bigger in size than that.” And they might respond, “Oh no, you’re crazy; you are thinking incorrectly about it; you’re smaller; don’t make yourself appear bigger; it’s all in your head.”
3. “I am not afraid of you; I do not care what you say or do.”
An interesting one: When you tell the narcissist, “I am not afraid of you; I do not care what you say or do; I will do what I have to do,” when you become assertive, when you set a boundary for yourself, and then for the narcissist, when you tell them, “I am not afraid of your false self, and I do not care about the consequences you say there are going to be for me, for my actions,” that is when you threaten a narcissist. And sometimes, you don’t even have to tell them; “I’m not afraid of you;” it’s through your actions. When you take a stand for yourself, when you speak up, when you try to stop them, when you do not care about pleasing them, that’s when you’re telling them, “I’m not afraid of you.”
The reaction to that one: A narcissist might try to control you in all ways possible. Two, they might succumb to your empowerment. A narcissist’s power lies in keeping you terrified, keeping you terrorized. They want you to think there’s something really big that you should always be compliant to, you can never speak up for, they can end your life. This is how my father made me feel all my life; I thought he was some kind of monster, and I had no power whatsoever there in his dominion. But I was wrong; the moment I took a stand for myself, he turned into this little scared mouse and was never able to torture me ever again since then, and also because I left. That’s an additional factor that prevented me from getting further traumatized.
5 Signs God is Showing You The Narcissist
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