Number eight: oral sex and narcissists’ desire for praise. When it comes to sexual preferences, narcissists have very specific desires that are often linked to their need for validation and praise. One of the more common sexual preferences among narcissists is the desire to receive oral sex. However, when they do perform this act themselves, it is rarely out of a genuine desire to please their partner. Instead, they typically view it as a means to receive praise and admiration, feeding their ever-hungry ego. For narcissists, the act of giving oral sex is more about getting validation than about any mutual sexual pleasure. They crave the affirmation that comes from being told they are the best lover you’ve ever had or that their performance is beyond compare. It’s not about intimacy or connection for them; it’s about reinforcing their sense of superiority and ensuring their ego is constantly being stroked. This need for constant praise often means that narcissists are less willing to give oral sex themselves, especially if they have multiple partners. They view the act as something that requires a level of closeness they are unwilling to offer, as it could potentially damage the carefully constructed self-image they work so hard to maintain. By keeping sexual acts like this at a distance, they are able to control the level of intimacy and ensure that they remain in a position of power where they are the focus of attention and admiration.
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