Number four: their disdain for boredom and conventionality. Boredom is the kryptonite for narcissists. For them, the constant search for novelty is a driving force. Even if you are physically attractive, offer great intimacy, and meet many of their needs, it is only a matter of time before they lose interest. Narcissists are rarely content with what they have, always on the lookout for something new and exciting to fill the void of boredom. This insatiable craving for stimulation makes them difficult to satisfy, as they are never truly satisfied with what is in front of them. Once they tire of a relationship, a partner, or even a particular lifestyle, they will quickly move on, seeking out the next adventure or thrill. They crave the feeling of excitement and distraction, always needing something fresh to capture their attention and keep them from feeling bored. This constant dissatisfaction often leads them to shift blame onto their past partners. They may claim that their previous relationships were unexciting or that their partners were unwilling to try new things, even if this is not the case. Narcissists are quick to devalue those around them once they no longer serve the purpose of providing them with the attention or excitement they seek. Their manipulation often extends to blaming others for their dissatisfaction rather than recognizing their own inability to find contentment.
Number five: the lack of emotional intimacy in sex. For narcissists, sex is rarely about intimacy or emotional connection. For them, it is more of a tool for self-gratification than a shared experience of closeness with a partner. Once their physical needs are met, they typically show little to no interest in emotional intimacy. After sex, they may immediately withdraw, physically distancing themselves and offering no affection or comfort. They have no desire to cuddle, connect, or engage in post-coital bonding because, for them, the act is only about fulfilling their own needs, not about creating a meaningful emotional connection. This lack of interest in emotional intimacy is not just limited to physical acts; it reflects a broader pattern of emotional distancing in their relationships. Narcissists view their partners as objects to be used for their own satisfaction rather than as equals deserving of love, care, and emotional connection. This emotional detachment extends beyond just their sexual relationships and into their overall view of others. They often struggle to form deep emotional bonds with anyone, as they prioritize their own desires and gratification above all else. Once they have achieved their goal of self-gratification, they discard their partner, often showing no interest in their feelings or emotional needs. To a narcissist, intimacy is not a shared experience but rather a means to fulfill their own desires with little regard for the emotional connection that should accompany it.
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