Have you ever wondered why narcissists seem to focus on you? You’re not alone in that thought. Narcissists are highly selective, and their attention is far from random. They are drawn to specific qualities in people—qualities you might not even recognize in yourself.
Today, let’s dig into why they seem to zero in on certain individuals and, most importantly, how you can protect yourself.
What Attracts Narcissists to You?
You might be surprised to learn that you possess traits narcissists find irresistible—traits you likely don’t even see as remarkable. In this article, we’ll break down those traits, uncover what they see in you, and explore ways to protect yourself.
Empathy and Understanding
Narcissists are instantly attracted to people who display empathy and understanding. If you’re the type of person who is kind, patient, and naturally caring, you won’t rush to judge them—and that’s exactly what they want. They are drawn to your compassion and tolerance.
Narcissists don’t want someone who challenges them or demands accountability. Instead, they seek someone who is easy to manipulate. If you’re inclined to give others the benefit of the doubt, this can act like a magnet for them. They target individuals with deep empathy who can easily tune into others’ emotions. They crave constant attention and care.
But here’s the problem: narcissists never reciprocate. It’s always about taking, never giving. They’ll never meet your needs.
A Strong Sense of Duty
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