When you are depressed and sick.
If they are sick, in pain, sad, or simply want attention, narcissists expect everyone to cater to their needs. Their needs come first, and you will be punished if you do not meet them, even if you are ill and have your own needs. Narcissists lack empathy; they will not care about you getting sick and being depressed. Do not entrust your life to them when you feel depressed most often. They want you to be.
A narcissist is usually irritated by the weakness and illness of others, because they are walking piles of need. The situation will divert their attention away from them. Narcissists are disgusted by sick people because they represent human frailty and weakness. Reminding them of their vulnerability, narcissists will see your situation as an opportunity to do whatever they want with their lives. One of these is abandoning you even when you are in desperate need.
When they feel like they have nothing else to gain from being with you.
A very wonderful book: Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself (English Edition)
Narcissists take advantage of situations and other people to achieve their goals. Success, power, and brilliance are all their priorities. They belittle others to feel more important. And most importantly, they have the inability or unwillingness to recognize other people’s needs and feelings. You’re entirely right if you believe you could be included among these people.
A narcissist will stay with you for a few months or years if you can still meet their needs. They will leave when you are no longer able to provide for their needs. This is one of the painful truths victims need to experience when being with them. Playing dark chests with all of their players in the position excites narcissists. We frequently return to the game without any strategy in place and without the experience of a skilled chess player, believing that we can beat them at their own game. They’ll look at your chess piece and remove it from the board. Because the game can’t be played with a missing piece, they’ll have to find someone else to take your place. This is how they play and plan to leave when they do not have anything to gain anymore.
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