A relationship with a narcissist is already fraught with challenges, and their constant lying only adds to the confusion and instability. Narcissists often lie about trivial things—where they bought a bagel or small, inconsequential details—simply because they can. For them, lying can feel like a form of control or dominance, a way of keeping you off balance and asserting their superiority.
But the bigger issue is that lies destroy trust. In any healthy relationship, trust is the foundation that allows for mutual respect, compassion, and understanding. When you catch a narcissist in a lie, especially repeatedly, it becomes almost impossible to maintain any level of trust. Over time, you may find yourself doubting everything they say, which can erode the very fabric of the relationship.
The lies, however, are often just a symptom of a deeper issue. Narcissistic relationships are rarely built on a foundation of respect or equality. Instead, they’re based on control, manipulation, and an imbalance of power. Trying to address the lies without recognizing the bigger picture may feel like solving a symptom while ignoring the root cause of the problem.
Can a Relationship Survive the Lies?
continue reading on the next page
Sharing is caring!
