Have you ever felt like your feelings don’t matter to someone? That someone might just be a narcissist. These people have a knack for brushing off your emotions as if they’re nothing. It’s like they don’t even care how you feel. Whether you’re angry, sad, or happy, they find a way to make it seem like your feelings don’t count. This can really mess with your head, making you feel small and worthless. But here’s the thing: your feelings are valid, no matter what they say. Don’t let their dismissive attitude make you doubt yourself. You deserve to be heard and understood. Hold your head high and remember that your feelings matter, no matter what anyone else says.
Tactic Number Three: Manipulative Flattery
Have you ever met someone who just can’t stop showering you with compliments? Watch out— they might be a narcissist. These people love to lay it on thick with flattery, making you feel like you’re walking on cloud nine. But here’s the catch: it’s all part of their game. They’re not being genuine; they’re trying to manipulate you. They use sweet words to reel you in and make you feel special, but don’t be fooled. It’s all a ploy to gain control over you. Once they’ve got you hooked, those compliments can quickly turn into criticisms, leaving you feeling dizzy and confused. You don’t need their validation to feel good about yourself. You’re fantastic just the way you are, no flattery required. So if someone is laying it on thick, take a step back and ask yourself: are they being genuine, or are they just trying to manipulate you?
Tactic Number Four: Isolation
Have you ever felt like you’re all alone in the world with no one to turn to? That could be because of a narcissist. These people are masters at cutting you off from your support networks—friends, family, you name it. They’ll do whatever it takes to keep you all to themselves. And it’s not because they love you so much; it’s all about control. Narcissists want you to depend on them for everything—validation, companionship, you name it. They’ll chip away at your connections until you feel like you have no one else but them. The more isolated you are, the easier it is for them to control you. But you don’t have to play by their rules. You deserve to have a life filled with people who genuinely care about you. If you feel like you’re being cut off from the world, take a step back and ask yourself: are they really looking out for you, or are they just trying to control you?
Tactic Number Five: Triangulation
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