They’ll praise their greatness one moment, then curse themselves for not being enough the next. It’s like they’re at war with themselves, struggling to reconcile the confident public image they project with the emotional wreckage lurking beneath.
3. The Social Media Rabbit Hole
In today’s digital world, narcissists have a new playground—social media. When they’re left to their own devices, they dive deep into it, spending hours scrolling, checking old posts, and obsessing over every like, comment, and share.
They’re not just posting; they’re carefully curating a version of their life where everyone loves them. But it doesn’t stop there. They keep going back to old posts, checking how many likes they’ve gotten, and even stalking the profiles of people who used to admire them. Their need for validation is insatiable.
Every notification feels like a hit of dopamine. But when the likes and comments start to slow down, their sense of self-worth takes a major hit. It becomes a vicious cycle—validation one minute, rejection the next. And the longer they’re left in isolation, the worse it gets.
4. Secret Fantasies of Revenge
Now here’s a creepy one—when narcissists are alone, they often let their minds run wild with thoughts of revenge. I’m talking about full-blown, elaborate daydreams where they plot how to get back at people who have crossed them.
Whether the offense is real or imagined, they might sit in silence, scribbling down plans or even recording voice memos detailing the best ways to ruin someone’s life for the slightest wrong. It’s like a twisted movie in their minds where they get to play the hero, taking control and delivering their version of justice.
Sure, they may never act on these fantasies, but trust me, they’re there—brewing just beneath the surface. These thoughts serve as an outlet for the anger and frustration they can’t express openly. Psychological research suggests narcissists are particularly vulnerable to vengeful thoughts, especially when they feel rejected or criticized. It’s like a spark that ignites an uncontrollable fire in their minds.
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