When a narcissist wants to punish you while keeping their actions hidden, they may target your personal belongings, such as toiletries. It’s a subtle, yet deeply invasive form of sabotage. They might rub your toothbrush on a dirty surface, smear your soap with something foul, or even contaminate your razor.
If you suspect something’s off, they’ll wave it away with a smirk, making you feel like a fool for even suspecting it. The goal is to make you feel disturbed without any clear proof, slowly eroding your sense of safety and trust in your own home. It’s a psychological game—a tactic to break down your boundaries, violate your personal space, and make you question your own perceptions.
Number 3: They Destroy Your Possessions Under the Guise of Carelessness
Your favorite clothes might mysteriously get stained or torn, electronics may malfunction, or even family heirlooms could go missing or get destroyed. They play the part of being clumsy or distracted, creating the illusion that it’s all just a series of unfortunate coincidences. When you confront them, they downplay the significance and accuse you of being too attached to material things.
It’s not about the possessions themselves; it’s an attack on your sense of security and trust. Each time you try to protect something, they make it feel pointless, reinforcing their control over what you value and, by extension, your stability.
Number 4: They May Spit or Urinate in Your Food
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