And the only way out is through. I hit my rock bottom when I survived my narcissistic roommate. Extreme health issues were triggered, and I even tried to take my own life because I thought I could not tolerate it any longer. This is the test that nearly breaks you, but it does not; because even in the depths of despair, when you are drowning in hopelessness, something inside you refuses to die. Something ancient, something unbreakable—a light of a different kind. It’s the part of you that was never truly touched by the narcissist; the part of you that belongs only to God.
I’m sharing this because I felt it at that time. When I got in touch with it, everything changed meaning. It was as if I was bombarded with realizations about everything and my priorities shifted. Can you resonate with what I’m sharing? Have you been through this? Let me know in the comments. The divine being lets you descend into this kind of darkness not to destroy you, but to rebuild you. He took you to the lowest point so you could finally see the truth: no one is coming to save you, and that is because you were never meant to be saved. You were meant to save yourself, which is exactly what I did.
Until then, I was heavily relying on doctors—from psychiatrists to neurologists and gastroenterologists. No one was giving me the answers I needed. They tested, investigated, and then dispensed a couple of pills, basically saying it would go away; not to exaggerate.
Now, let’s move to test number five: the test of becoming untouchable. This is the final test—the moment you realize that the narcissist holds no power over you. The moment you stop seeking closure, stop seeking revenge, stop seeking anything from them at all, because you finally understand: they were never your undoing. They were never strong; they were never powerful. They were weak, fragile creatures who had to destroy others just to feel whole.
You, on the other hand, survived what was meant to annihilate you, and now nothing can touch you. Why? Because you can see through the lies; you can recognize the manipulation. You can spot the red flags from a mile away. And when another narcissist tries to enter your life, you do not engage. You do not fight; you do not react, because you have risen above them.
That is the ultimate victory for you and the defeat for the narcissistic collective spirit. This is the test that marks the end of the war, the test that proves you have not just survived but have laid the foundation for thriving. Not everyone passes these tests. Many remain stuck; many never escape, but you did. You were chosen for these battles, not as a punishment, but as preparation. God does not waste suffering. He does not break people without reason. I can tell you this fromShare experience: He refines them, strengthens them, and, when they are ready, He elevates them.
You are not the same person you were before meeting the narcissist. You are something more—something unbreakable. Now, you walk this earth with a power few will ever understand. You are one of the rare individuals who have faced the darkest storms and emerged as the storm itself. And that is why nothing will ever break you again.
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