The answer lies in how narcissists view relationships. Unlike emotionally healthy individuals, narcissists don’t see relationships as mutual connections or opportunities for growth. Instead, they see them as sources of “supply”—validation and a way to reinforce their own self-worth.
According to renowned narcissistic personality disorder expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula, narcissists need others to mirror their brilliance. They view people as tools, not as unique individuals with their own needs and desires. Once you’ve served as their source of approval, you become a permanent part of their mental image.
Even after you’ve moved on, the narcissist’s need for validation persists. In fact, being without you may intensify their obsession because they no longer have control. Though they may act like they’ve forgotten you, they often covertly monitor you—wondering if you still think about them or if you’ve found someone else.
The driving forces behind a narcissist’s infatuation are control and the need to feel superior—not love or genuine concern.
“But They’ve Moved On”
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