Of course, the narcissist wishes they could treat you like trash all the time and get away with it. But they can’t, and in many cases, it is only when we challenge them or stop caring that they all of a sudden want to be nice again. But to conclude, when you are a primary source of supply, although the narcissist hates you and wants to abuse you, when you make up your mind to stop caring and stop being emotionally invested in the narcissist, it gets their attention. Some of them may get mad at first, but the next course of action is usually to love-bomb you again. Because when the narcissist is not ready to let you go, they are willing to try and charm you once more to get you to start caring for them again.
Although the narcissist wants to start acting like they care when you have had enough of their games, do not fall back into the trap. Their actions are never genuine, and they are not acting out of love for you but instead for what they can get from you. And before you know it, you will be back in the same position where they are taking you for granted once more. They do not really care about you or anyone; they just want what they want and are willing to deceive you into thinking that they do. Narcissists are selfish people, and they are willing to trap others in relationships with them for their own benefit. It is up to us to end that cycle and put an end to these narcissistic relationships.
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