The second reason narcissists end up with multiple partners is that they are greedy. Narcissists are never satisfied or content with what or who they have; they always feel they can do better. This confuses many people because the narcissist works hard to secure someone, doing everything to impress that person—giving their time, energy, and resources. However, as soon as they have that person exclusively to themselves, the relationship no longer feels as fun or exciting. The narcissist quickly grows bored and seeks a new challenge. For a narcissist, new quickly becomes old. So why settle for one partner or one family when they can have two or three—or one in every city? The narcissist’s greed and envy lead them to feel entitled to whatever and whoever they desire.
How Living a Double Life Affects the Narcissist
Living a double life can be stressful and is one of the reasons narcissists are always on edge. They have so many secrets that they prefer to keep hidden, believing it gives them a sense of control. The narcissist creates their own problems due to their blind, selfish desires, which, while feeding their ego, also leave them paranoid and fearful. Narcissists keep secrets that would expose their true identity and lack of empathy. Among these secrets are extra partners or love children scattered here and there.
If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, never assume you are the only one. They are loyal to no one and love only themselves. It’s not your fault that they cheat, lie, or live a double life. Narcissists are selfish and greedy, caring only for themselves. It’s all about what they want and what they can extract from those around them.
You may love them as best as you can, giving them everything, but it will never be enough. Your time, love, and energy poured into a narcissist is all in vain. Do not let them convince you otherwise. They will keep you around as long as they can. However, as soon as you discover what they are up to—the scheming and cheating behind your back—they will suddenly make it your fault.
Being in a relationship with a narcissist who does not respect people or consider anyone’s feelings is risky. The narcissist would engage in sexual relationships with whomever they choose, putting your sexual health at risk. It simply isn’t worth it. They are the type who might give you an STD as a result of their promiscuity, then accuse you of cheating and claim that you were the one who infected them. You cannot make this stuff up; narcissists are that twisted.
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