They finally realize you’re done with them; that’s it. But how are they going to react? What will they do next? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered—I’ll explain everything in this article.
First of all, as the title implies, the narcissist has come to understand that you’re done—that you’ve had enough. And that’s a good thing! Reaching this point is crucial. It’s the point of no return, a place you need to get to. It’s a decision that says, “I’m done with the games and with feeling low.” You may still be dealing with the trauma bond, but you’ve gained a new understanding: this person is simply not good for you, and you can’t remain in this toxic dynamic. You’ve recognized that your mental, emotional, and physical well-being matter too much to let anyone destroy them.
Getting to this point, though, is hard—it’s difficult to stop caring about someone, especially when you’re empathetic. Letting go of someone you loved, someone you felt a strong connection with, can feel like breaking a powerful bond. But you’ve done the hardest part, which is choosing yourself and deciding to walk away. Many people find it incredibly challenging to reach this point of letting go.
So, why didn’t you leave sooner? Well, understand that this person made it hard to let go. They demanded your attention and forgiveness, creating an intense pull that’s difficult to resist. Each time you return, they say just the right things, gaslighting you into thinking things will change, only for the cycle to repeat.
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