What the narcissist still desperately wants from you is a certain kind of silence that follows a relationship with them. It’s not the silence of healing or the hush of peace; this silence is thick. It hums like a warning, like something unfinished. You’ve pulled away and maybe even rebuilt your life from the ground up, but something still tugs at the edges of your spirit—a strange message, a like from the shadows, an unexpected face in a familiar place. And it leaves you asking, “Why now? Why is the narcissist still reaching out, still echoing through the corridors of your new life?” You’re not imagining it; it’s real. But what they’re after is not love. It’s not remorse. They don’t miss you in the way people miss each other when something pure is lost. What the narcissist wants now is far more cunning and dangerous to your peace than any sweet apology or tender confession.
If you’ve ever wondered why the narcissist keeps circling back after the storm has passed, it’s time to uncover the truth. When you see what’s beneath it all, when you finally recognize the motive behind the mask, you won’t fall for the illusion again. You’ll stand firmer, breathe freer, and you’ll know.
Let’s start with the root of it: the narcissist never loved you in the way you loved them. Not with grace, not with truth. Never. The relationship was never a meeting of hearts; it was a mirror built for their ego. You weren’t chosen to be cherished; you were chosen to serve a role: to applaud when needed, to remain silent when convenient, to orbit their self-centered world like a moon with no light of its own. The moment you woke up, the moment you chose to love yourself more than the illusion, you became a threat. And threats must be managed.
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