You’re accepting a job loss as a redirection toward a place where your gifts will be honored. You’re accepting the end of the friendship as God making room for people who won’t treat your heart like an experiment.
Here’s the core instruction: don’t engage. The narcissist wants you in the mud, in the argument, in the late-night text thread that goes nowhere. They want you exhausted mentally, emotionally, and physically. When you step back, you’re not only protecting yourself; you’re breaking a generational pattern.
You might wonder, “Do they miss me?” The truth is layered. The narcissist misses your usefulness. They miss your supply. They miss the feeling of having someone under their control. But they don’t miss you in the deep human way you miss people—not because you’re unlovable, but because the narcissist doesn’t have that depth to give.
That’s the narcissist’s tragedy, not yours. They thought they would hear from you again. They thought you’d blow up their phone on holidays. They thought you’d stalk their social media. They thought you couldn’t breathe without that presence. Show how wrong that was—not with speeches, but with your life.
Don’t reach out. Don’t circle back. Let the narcissist deal with the echo, the silence they created. Even if you’re blocked, resist making new accounts or asking mutual friends for updates. Don’t casually drive past their street. Those behaviors signify someone still trapped in the narcissist’s game.
That’s not you anymore. You’re a person of worth, a person of dignity. You owe the narcissist nothing—no more explanations, no more closure, no more access to your heart. Let the narcissist stay in your past. You’re writing a new chapter, and you’re the author now.
Fill the silence with life. Read books that open your eyes. Listen to voices that validate what you’ve been through. Spend time with people who make you laugh from your belly. Pick up the hobbies, dreams, and passions you had to put on the shelf while managing the narcissist’s emotions.
The narcissist is waiting for a call that will never come. And in that holy quiet, you’re going to hear something far more important: your own voice coming back to you.
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