Have you ever contemplated the aftermath of breaking free from a narcissist’s clutches? Recently, I engaged in a conversation about the stages of narcissistic abuse, exploring the cyclical pattern of idealization, devaluation, discard, hoovering, and repetition that often characterizes narcissistic relationships.
However, we rarely delve into the stages that unfold within the mind of the narcissist when you finally leave them. This exploration aims to shed light on this subject, recognizing its lack of widespread discussion but acknowledging its significance.
Many individuals wonder what the narcissist will do next or how the aftermath will unfold. While each situation is unique and unpredictable, I’ve gathered various accounts and drawn from personal experience to illustrate the general patterns and strategies narcissists commonly employ.
Their intent is to bolster their self-image by attempting to paint you as the malign force within the relationship. So, let us explore the aftermath of breaking free from a narcissist.
What Happens When You Decide to Part Ways with a Narcissist?
The journey begins with contemplating the pain and mistreatment endured throughout the relationship. When you express your intention to leave or even hint at it, the narcissist often struggles to accept it. From my own experience, I never fathomed that my partner would possess the courage and determination to walk away from me. I believed I held control over her and the situation, failing to acknowledge the long-term repercussions of my actions. Naively, I assumed things would quickly return to normal.
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